DIVORCE - Rising, Surviving and Thriving People going through divorce often focus on the endings it represents – the ending of a relationship, a dream, a way of life. To thrive after divorce requires you to look at divorce as a beginning – the beginning of a new life, of new possibilities for loving relationship, of a sense of self-empowerment and awareness you may have never have experienced before. One small suggestion for all of us that are or have lived through a separation or divorce … [Read more...]
Transformation is a Mysterious Journey ~ Worth the Walk
... expanding into higher levels of consciousness ... Much like the caterpillar who has woven a cocoon around himself to transform into something beautiful, I too feel as though I have gone inside to become something that more closely reflects my True Self … With the transitional energy that 2012 holds, it would seem, stronger than ever, that now is a perfect time to seize the moment and transform our lives in more ways than one. Change is in the air, as … [Read more...]
Fear Change – 10 signs it’s time to let go
Holding on is being brave, but letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger and happier. Here are ten signs it’s time to let go: Someone expects you to be one you’re not. – Don’t change who you are for anyone else. It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, than to keep them by being someone you’re not. Because it’s easier to mend a broken heart, than it is to piece together a shattered identity. It’s easier to fill an empty space in your life where someone else used … [Read more...]
Count Your Change, Larry James
Relationships never move in straight lines. They wander. And create opportunities you'd never expect. Evaluate your progress. Embrace change. Do not resist it. The secret to embracing change is focusing on what you CAN do. The word can’t does not exist in change. ChANge! The smallest pebble in your shoe will irritate you until you do something about it. Be excited about the changes that occur in your relationship. Learn from them. If you think you do not have a choice in managing change, … [Read more...]
Shirlee Hall – Now Is the Time
Now Is the Time Tired of struggling, waiting and watching? Tired of feeling alone in your efforts? Tired of not knowing the future and what it will bring? Stop and listen and listen well Stop and take a close look at what you are Stop and believe that all is in order. Begin to see clearly by stepping out of your way Begin to feel differently by changing the chatter Begin to listen to a New Song, a Song of Hope. Now is the time you must be in control Now is the time when … [Read more...]
Get Out of Your Own Way!
If you are one who can't seem to settle down with "the one," then you might consider doing some soul-searching. If success seems to evade you regardless of what you do, then it's time to have a talk with yourself. You can blame it on the way you and the rest of us were taught to think. But blame will not reverse the effect unless you make a conscious decision to live your life in a way that supports you in what you are really up to. It's important to remember that wrong decisions don’t make … [Read more...]
ACCESS YOUR POWER – Live an Adventure, not just an Existence!
Research dictates that our power is depleted by outside sources, "... environmental demand exceeds the natural regulatory capacity of an organism.". Is this true? Regardless of environment, one can sail through any experience 'powerfully' by tweaking your own perception of a situation, allowing for different responses, lessen intensity of reactions, alleviating the sense of doom, and increase levels of humor. Seriously, is there any situation in life that so bad that your perception will … [Read more...]