HONESTY in ‘All our Affairs’.

Primary Key in Life is HONESTY, in ‘all’ our Affairs

As the Women of our World are brave souls, with the ‘courage of lions and the hearts of lambs’, never fear the Truth, as it is the only facet in this life that will Set You Free!

As painful as the Journey to Truth may be at times; the end result is always Worth the Journey.

 

The 32 emotional signs your partner is having an affair comes from

 180 Telltale Signs Mates Are Cheating and How to Catch Them.

Top 12 Signs that You are living a lie … Honesty is not Happening!

1. Your mate is more attentive to your needs than usual. This is due to the guilt feelings experienced by the cheater in the early stages of his or her affair. The attention will diminish as the affair continues.

2. Your mate’s behavior is causing a gut feeling in you that something isn’t right. If this happens, pay attention to your instincts. Ignoring them means you want to blind yourself to the truth. You know your mate’s habits, routines and attitudes better than anybody, so be suspicious when these things change.

3. Your mate frequently picks fights with you. Doing this gives him reason to get mad and storm out of the house and thus the opportunity to meet a lover. A cheater may also do this because of mixed emotions he is feeling about betraying you.

4. Your mate becomes very moody. He or she seems very upbeat and excited when leaving you but acts somber and depressed when around you. If your mate is in a long-term affair, he/she will try to keep both relationships running smoothly. Any problems the cheater has in one relationship will spill over into the other relationship as well. This is inevitable.

5. Your mate easily becomes offended at the comments, however harmless, that you make. They begin to take every comment defensesively and personally.

6. Your mate begins closing doors when you are around, when before he or she would leave them open. For instance, the Bathroom-Door Rule: Couples in long-term relationships often leave their bathroom doors open while attending to necessities even if their partners are nearby. As affairs develop, the cheating mates will close bathroom doors, distancing themselves physically and psychologically from their partners.

7. Your mate is more interested in reading a book, staying up late at night using the internet in secret or watching television rather than talking with you or making love to you.

8. Your mate begins using new catch phrases or starts to tell types of jokes or express opinions that are unusual for him or her. His or her voice may even take on a slant in tone, verbiage or speed, emulating the other lover.

9. Your mate talks in her sleep and mentions the name of a particular person on more than one occasion. He or she will be extremely defensive if you mention these events, becoming very defensive, almost accusatory that You are the creator of these night-time conversations, ones that they may not even remember themselves, as they were sleeping at the time.

10. Your mate’s behavior is such that your friends begin asking you what’s wrong. Close friends and family members often will notice tension or discord between the two of you before you are fully aware of it.

11. Your mate’s sleeping pattern changes considerably from the norm and may include unexplainable exhaustion, restlessness, frequent nightmares and sleep-talking.

12. Your mate easily becomes offended when you make normal and natural inquiries and may demand to know why you are checking up on him or her, reminding you that they have a life of their own; and that you are acting in a co-dependent fashion. The guilty will always blame the other party for investigating.

Always remember the line:  “Trust; but verify.”

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