Take Action ...not Re-Action! Are you still holding onto grudges or being haunted by negative past relationships? Is there an 'ex' who has wronged you in the past and whom you have not forgiven? Do your thoughts ever turn to past relationship hurt, betrayal and jealousy? Are you ever worried that the same patterns will repeat in your current or future relationships? Walk Away ... with Dignity and Self Respect If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. … [Read more...]
One of the greatest marriage proposals in Houston at the Wortham Center!
One of the greatest marriage proposals in Houston at the Wortham Center! Katrina made stops to pick up some of her favorite/meaningful items before she found herself at the Cullen Theater watching her favorite musical number on stage from Carmen Jones and the love of her life ask her to be his wife! Katrina made stops to pick up some of her favorite/meaningful items before she found herself at the Cullen Theater watching her favorite musical number on stage from … [Read more...]
WOMEN in RECOVERY – Embrace the strong, fearless side of you!
Embrace the strong, fearless side of you, that personality that you may have forgotten about. If you are doing something you love to do, if you are engaged and passionate, it is like a giant beacon. What You Need To Learn Analyze less and take action more quickly. Don’t be so picky with other people or with yourself. Reduce the number of details you need to make decisions. Consider people’s feelings more prior … [Read more...]
Three Benefits to Spiritual Surrender
Surrender & Release Let go, and let the Universe guide ... When we willingly release and begin the process of healing from the unhappy situation, we may find we gain the necessary clarity that was not apparent to us before. In having gained clarity individuals often regain their own self determination and strength. If we could see the miracle in letting go our whole life would change. sur·ren·der [suh-ren-der] Show IPA verb (used with object) 1.to … [Read more...]
The Real Cause of Narcissism ~ Why has narcissism permeated our world?
The Real Cause of Narcissism Why has narcissism permeated our world? The answer: Because we have not evolved (as a world society) to understand the necessity to create an authentic emotional self. To be ‘at one’ with ourselves, life and others is a very spiritual experience… To not be ‘at one’ is a hellish experience – this state is where narcissism is born. It’s simple: Every Act of Abuse Is Born From Emotional Pain, Fear and a Need to Control. When we are ‘at one’ … [Read more...]
Are You a Prisoner to CO-DEPENDENCY?
A Celebration of Women Cares and wants YOU to HEAL and CELEBRATE Your Life.... Are You a Prisoner to CO-DEPENDENCY? Codependent adults bring their family-of-origin survival skills into their personal and professional relationships, where they only serve to perpetuate the all-too-familiar dramas of childhood. Characteristics of codependency include the following: • Difficulty identifying and communicating emotions • Confusion with roles and rules in … [Read more...]
The Myth of Divorce: ReDating is a Better Option
People who divorce often think they’ll be happier. Statistics say otherwise. A 2002 study by the Institute for American Values showed that 66% of unhappily married adults who didn’t divorce were happily married five years later even when the marriage had serious problems. Only 20% had divorced and happily remarried in the same time period. You’re more likely to end up happily married to the spouse you have than if you trade your spouse for a newer model. Why? Here’s why: Divorce … [Read more...]
8 Reasons to Keep Your Live-In Nanny Out of a Spousal Dispute
8 Reasons to Keep Your Live-In Nanny Out of a Spousal Dispute When someone lives in your home and cares for your children they’re automatically privy to more sensitive information about your marriage than a center-based childcare provider; in some cases, they may be more well-informed about the state of your union than some of your friends and family members. While it can be almost impossible to keep these details completely private from your live-in nanny, there are several reasons why you … [Read more...]
In Life Sometimes the Rain Must Fall
“The strongest oak of the forest is not the one that is protected from the storm and hidden from the sun. It’s the one that stands in the open where it is compelled to struggle for its existence against the winds and rains and the scorching sun.” -Napoleon Hill (1883-1970) Insight The skill here is in learning to ask tough questions and to give honest answers. It’s about asking yourself hard questions — about your strengths and weaknesses, for example, or about the role you play in your own … [Read more...]
‘Relationships are a Full-time job, don’t apply if not ready’
To have a really terrific relationship you don't have to do everything right. Human nature pretty much says that you won't always get it right. However, you DO have to stay focused on doing whatever it takes, all of the time. Do what your conscience tells you is right. Shower each other with Love. If that sounds like a full-time job... it is! While I realize that this is an awesome "take responsibility for your relationship" assignment, if you really love each other this mission is … [Read more...]
10 Ways to Scare Off Your Boyfriend
Finding the right guy isn’t easy. Scads of self-help books, talk shows and magazine articles are dedicated to the art of finding, and keeping, a man. Even the most fiercely independent women can find themselves searching for Mister Right, then inadvertently scaring them away with these ten early-relationship snafus. Here are 10 'early-relationship' snafus to avoid, giving the first year or so a chance: Drop the Premature L-Bomb – One surefire way to send a … [Read more...]