On Being Spontaneous! Never valued certainty so much that you don't allow yourself to be open and available for the adventure that spontaneity provides! Never underestimate the value of spontaneity in a relationship. Too often relationships lose their excitement because the partners fall into a routine that becomes boring as time goes by. Regimented routines are okay for the short term but become boring after awhile. If you spend to much of your time planning the details of your … [Read more...]