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The Year of Setting an “Outrageous” Intention for Love

 

 
Loving greetings to you at the start of this bright and promising new year.

I want you to know that I am standing in support of the fulfillment of your intention to create an unprecedented, love-fulfilled future!

I know this future can happen for you, and today I’m going to share a practice that can make an enormous difference in helping you to attract your “One” this year.

You see, my Calling in “The One” was born from my own personal success in manifesting a great love after I set what I affectionately call an “outrageous intention” to be engaged by my 42nd birthday.

It was outrageous because I had no prospects in sight and a mere eight months to manifest this miracle (after trying for 20 years to find “The One” with no success).

So I put my rational mind aside—since I knew it would only tell me all the reasons love would never happen for me—and I began putting one foot in front of the other to consciously co-create the realization of that intention.

And lo and behold, in just a few months, what was once an outrageous intention became a bona fide reality, and the love I had yearned for all those years to no avail, seamlessly and beautifully arrived in my life, as if by magic.

So, as we step into the new year, I encourage you to take these same bold steps toward creating the life and love that you deserve.

And because I want to support you to use the most powerful techniques in setting your outrageous intention to manifest great love, I’m writing today with a potent exercise that you can start using immediately!

But before you begin the exercise, I invite you to set aside a quiet time and space for yourself, away from distractions. Turn away from the multi-tasking, shut your phone off, and perhaps even light a candle for love.

Setting Your Intention to Manifest Love

Begin By Connecting with the Part of Yourself that Knows Your Own Value and Worthiness to Love and Be Loved:

Close your eyes and allow your awareness to drop down into your body, breathing as though you could breathe all the way down into your hips.

Connect with the part of you that knows your own true value and worthiness to love and be loved. Connect with the part of you that is able to push back against any doubt you might have about your ability to find true love.

Anchor into the part of you that knows deep down inside that you did not come here to be alone, but that you were born to love and be loved. Identify with the part of yourself that recognizes that you do, indeed, have the power to grow your capacity to love and be loved so that you are ready to receive a loving, committed partnership into your life.

Connect with Your Deeper Desires:

From this deeper center—where you have access to an alive, dynamic partnership with the creative energies of Life, ask yourself the following questions one at a time, feeling into the energies you want to be experiencing with your beloved:

• What do I most deeply desire to experience with my beloved?
• What do I most deeply desire to express to my beloved?
• What do I most deeply desire to create with my beloved?
• What do I most deeply desire to contribute to my beloved and to the world through our union?

Notice how this inquiry begins to engage you in beginning to generate that which you are yearning to have. Suddenly you are inspired to begin showing up differently, so that you organically begin to co-create with Life the fulfillment of your deeper desires.

From an awareness of your deeper desires in love, I invite you to begin crafting the words to an outrageous intention that incorporates some of the evocative images that came to you during the exercise.

The 5 Steps To Setting a Powerful and Outrageous Intention for Love:

1. Speak your intention in the affirmative.

Make sure you declare your intention as what shall be so as opposed to what you don’t want any more of. In other words, rather than saying, “No more abusive relationships!” you might instead say, “My intention is to create a deeply kind, inspired and respectful relationship that offers safety and goodness to both of us.”

2. Create an intention for love that is future-focused.

Make sure that your intention is about what it is that you are creating in the future and not about the past. In other words, rather than saying, “My intention is to make amends to all of my former boyfriends this year,” you might instead say, “This year, my intention is to have clear, clean and integrous relationships with everyone I know, and to generate an unprecedented experience of a mutually empowering, ecstatically loving relationship with the man of my dreams.”

3. Make your intention for love potent and powerful!

Don’t be afraid to go for the gold on this one. Rather than playing it safe by setting an intention to simply find a new relationship, allow yourself to ante up by committing to the deepest and most inspiring intention you can imagine. For example: “My intention is to magnetize into my life a relationship that is characterized by depth, devotion, intelligence, joy, humor, fun, inspiration, and a deep spiritual and soulful connection that feels timeless and eternal!”

4. Share your intention for love with some friends who you can ask to hold you accountable to be the person you’ll need to be in order to fulfill it!

Studies show that when you set and hold intentions with a community of people who know and care about you, those intentions are six times more likely to manifest.

So seek out a close friend or a circle of friends you can confide in and who you can trust to make sure you stay on track as you work to become the person you know you must become to call this kind of love into your life.

Our Art of Love Facebook community can offer additional support and even be this “circle of friends” for you, and I urge you to go to our Facebook page today and make your bold declaration of intention.

It can truly be the next powerful step in making this your year for finding that one special woman or man who is the perfect person for you!

5. Let your intention be your North Star!

You must spend time with your intention each and every day, allowing it to be your guiding star in the choices you make and the actions you take, making sure to align how you are showing up in life to ensure the fulfillment of that intention!

Listen deeply to your own knowing daily, asking yourself: “What do I need to do to prepare myself to receive this love into my life?”  “What choices do I need to be making to serve the fulfillment of my intention?” “Who do I need to be and what are the actions I need to be taking in order to prepare myself to receive my beloved into my life?”

I can’t wait to be inspired by your outrageous and courageous intention for calling in the love you desire and deserve, and please know that all of us here at Calling in “The One” and The Art of Love are standing with you and for you in realizing this most wonderful miracle.

With love,

Katherine

As you set your intention to make this the year you finally call in your soulmate, I want you to know that I’m offering a free seminar designed to help you identify any blocks you may have to love and liberate yourself from them once and for all, as well as to teach you the secrets of becoming truly magnetic to love.

You can register to join me here: Calling in The One:  How to Identify and Release Your Hidden Barriers to Love and Become Magnetic to Your Soulmate