Well . . . What Did You Expect?
We get pretty much what we expect to get in our relationship.
What we expect to get is what we focus on.
- If it turns out good, we should not be disappointed.
- If it turns out bad, we should not be disappointed.
We got what we expected.
What else did we expect to get?
Perhaps we should learn to be in a relationship with no expectations. In a spirit of unity, only and always work together, all the time, to create the best relationship we can.
- All the time.
- With intention.
- In a spirit of unity.
- All the time.
If we could do that, maybe we wouldn’t have to be concerned about expectations when they surface; we would know things were always going to be as good as the people working on them. Perhaps that is why it is important to have a great relationship with ourselves. When we can do a great relationship with ourselves, we can do a great relationship with two people.
When we reach that place, we can have a great relationship with someone else because we already know how to be in a great relationship. . . with ourselves!
by Larry James
Larry James is a professional speaker, author, relationship coach and an award winning nondenominational Wedding Officiant. He performs the most “Romantic” wedding ceremony you will find anywhere. Something NEW about relationships is posted every 4th day on this Relationships BLOG.
Relationships, ‘Well. . . What Did You Expect?’
December 20, 2012 by
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