INCEST is more rampant than one knows…Take Action!

Does INCEST strip the INNOCENCE of a CHILD?

 

That is the Question ….

The problem is that this information is rarely tracked by third world countries.

In developed nations, the case of sexual abuse, will always be naturally under reported.

In the case of consensual incest, the topic is still taboo, but due to the nature of consent, we have a better picture.

 

High Incest Activity Countries

That is a hard question to answer. Several countries share the spot for having the highest incest rate.

 

Plausible Assumptions

•Countries with the least amount civil liberties and individual rights for women and children will have the fewest checks in place to dissuade victimization by incestuous predators. In countries with regimes that women and children do not have a voice, are most likely to engage in non-consensual or cultural incest.

•Under the premise that those under the average age of consent is 14 world-wide; Western counseling agencies reports that around 78% of women and children (males and females) coming from the most repressive country regimes such as Uzbekistan, Afghanistan, Turkmenistan, and Chechnya have experienced on-going or initiative non-consensual incest.

•Africa as a continent is an enigma. There are not lots of information regarding incest in Africa. The other problems there are so vast, that incest flys below the radar. It can be assumed, that the statistics would be similar to those of the Middle East. No major Incest Community groups consider any country in Africa a destination to practice and engage with others who practice consensual incest.

•When you combine poverty with alcoholism, the pervasiveness of both consensual incest and violent based dramatically increases within any given society, culture, and country.

In the United States, while incest is not statistically high, certain regions suffer from quadruple the rate of incest; such as many of those from the poverty-alcoholism stricken region of the Appalachian Mountains and the swamps or backwoods of the Deep South.

It is so commonly known, that this has become part of American cultural fabric often referenced in literature, theater, movies, art, and music. following are a list of countries which suffers from the highest poverty-alcoholism rate in the world; were high levels of incest is plausible although, may or may not be backed by data.

Although the following countries may not be poor due to the extreme wealth of some of their major cities, the gap is evident by the percentage of poor in the country.

•◦Republic of Croatia
◦Bosnia and Herzegovina
◦Russian Federation (with the exception of Moscow and St. Petersburg)
◦Georgia
◦Poland
◦Slovakia
◦Hungary
◦Czech Republic
◦Bulgaria
◦The Slavic and Balkan Regions particularly
◦China

Cultural or Witnesses Based Observation (Well known in the Incest Community)

High Rates of non-consensual incest as chronicled by some organizations:

•India | RAHI (Recovering and Healing from Incest) Foundation, Cultural

•Russia, Romania, Lithuania, Czech Republic, Hungary | Major Consensual Incest Porn Production Industry, Consensual Incest Tourism Destination, Family Sex Trafficking Businesses (non-consensual). There are several porn production companies which run and star in family sex business without its overseas customers being aware. Russia is the largest producer of family porn.
•Brazil, Columbia | Major Consensual Incest Tourism Destination, Consensual Incest Porn Production Industry, Cultural
•Japan, Malaysia, Thailand, Netherlands, Sweden, Finland | Cultural Incest is high particularly in Japan and Holland. The organization CHRIS in Holland reports one-in-seven people have practiced incest for a prolonged period of time. These places are major destinations for Consensual Incest Tourism.
•Middle East, Afghanistan, Turkey | In Afghanistan, it is common for boys experience incest or sexual abuse by males with the knowledge of their fathers, up to the age of 13 when the technically become men. It is seen as a rite of passage. Based on the account women and girls, 78% have been exposed to prolonged incestuous contact. Women and children often time are beaten or killed if they would dare complain, in honor killings. They keep silent and at some level engage as something normal because of its cultural pervasiveness. This has also been observed by NGO’s and military personnel. According to Turkish government reports of the documented abuse cases;18% of minors have been documented as victims of sexual abuse in Turkey. Social Services and Child Protection Agency (SHÇEK). Consensual incest is widely accepted to be a very high figure.

Permissive Governments and Havens for Consensual Incest

•Regarding Russia, India, Japan, Belgium, France, Brazil, Portugal, Holland (Netherlands), Romania, Czech Republic, Hungary, Bulgaria, Israel; consensual Incestuous Families have for long, favored these countries as places to meet up with others who practice the same. Brazil, Spain, Holland, and France has become a popular destinations for those who practice incest to move to.

 

Incest in the Gulf – زنا المحارم – السفاح في الخليج

What the extent of incest or rape incest what is known in the Gulf? كيف يمكن حماية الأولاد من هذا النوع من الافعال ؟
How can you protect the children from this kind of actions? ما هي اثاره النفسية على الضحية؟
What are its psychological effects on the victim? هل هناك شفافية في الحديث عن زنا المحارم في المجتمعات الخليجية؟
Is there transparency in talking about incest in Gulf societies? وكيف تعاقب القوانين الخليجية المعتدين؟
And how laws punish the aggressors Gulf? سفاح القربة في الخليج موضوع مساواة مع ندين البدير

 

In Association with Amazon.com

http://www.hidingstar.com

 

The following books for survivors by other authors are
available for purchase directly from Amazon by utilizing the links below.

 

Self help and other reading materials are intended to be used in conjunction with professional therapy services. Reading materials and other media can often result in increased symptoms due to additional memories being triggered and the reader needs to be prepared for this.

Please discuss any disturbing reactions with your individual and/or group therapists.  

Survivors are encouraged to educate themselves about incest and sexual abuse and to use as many tools as are available for healing.  

Some of these books are very graphic and may produce intense emotions for the reader. 

Abused Boys: The Neglected
Victims of Sexual Abuse
Mic Hunter

Adults Molested As Children: A
Survivor’s Manual for Women & Men
Euan Bear & Peter

Dimock

Allies in Healing: When the
Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child
Laura Davis

Alone and Forgotten: The
Sexually Abused Man
Rod Tobin

Amongst Ourselves: A Self-help
Guide to Living with Dissociative Identity Disorder
Tracy Alderman,

Ph.D. & Karen Marshall, LCSW

Because I Remember Terror,
Father, I Remember You
Sue William Silverman

Beginning to Heal (Revised
Edition): A First Book for Men and Women Who Were Sexually Abused as
Children
Ellen Bass & Laura Davis

Betrayal of Innocence: Incest
and It’s Devastation
Susan Forward and Craig Buck

Conspiracy of Silence: The
Trauma of Incest
Sandra Butler & Judith Herman

Daddy’s Girl Charlotte
Allen

Father –Daughter
Incest
Judith Herman

Father-Daughter Rape
Elizabeth Ward

For Yourself: The Fulfillment
of Female Sexuality
Lonnie Barback Ph.D.

Ghosts In The Bedroom: A guide
for the Partners of Incest Survivors
Ken Graber

Growing Through the Pain: The
Incest Survivor’s Companion
Terry Spohn (Editor)

How Long Does It Hurt?: A
Guide to Recovering from Incest and Sexual Abuse for Teenagers, Their Friends
& Their Families
Cynthia Mather & Kristina Debye

I Can’t Get Over It: A
Handbook for Trauma Survivors
Aphrodite Matsakis

I Know Why the Caged Bird
Sings
Maya Angelou

I Never Told Anyone: Writings
by Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
Ellen Bass

I Thought We’d Never Speak
Again: The Road from Estrangement to Reconciliation
Laura Davis

If I Should Die Before I
Wake
Michelle Morris

Incest and Sexuality: A Guide
to Understanding and Healing
Wendy Maltz and Beverly Holman

Journey Through the Tunnel:
One Man’s Story of Incest & Survival
Robert Taylor

Kiss Daddy Goodnight
Louise Armstrong

Maddy’s Song Margaret
Dickson

Not Child’s Play: An Anthology
on Brother-Sister Incest
Risa Shaw

Out of the Shadows:
Understanding Sexual Addiction
Patrick Carnes

Outgrowing the Pain: A Book
for and About Adults Abused As Children
Eliana Gil

Reclaiming Our Lives: Hope for
Adult Survivors of Incest
Karen Lison & Carol Poston

Reclaiming the Heart: A
Handbook of Help & Hope for Survivors of Incest
Mary Beth McClure

Secret Survivors: Uncovering
Incest & It’s Afftereffects in Women
Sue Blume

Sexual Anorexia: Overcoming
Sexual Self-Hatred
Joseph Moriarity and Patrick Carnes

Sibling Abuse: Hidden
Physical, Emotional, and Sexual Trauma
Vernon Wiehe

Silently Seduced: When Parents
Make their Children Partners – Understanding Covert Incest
Kenneth

Adams

Speaking Out-Fighting
Back
Siter Vera Gallagher

Sybil Flora Rheta
Schreiber, Flora Rhea Schreiber

The Body Remembers: The
Psychophysiology of Trauma and Trauma Treatment
Babette Rothschild

The Courage to Heal Workbook:
For Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
Laura Davis

The Courage to Heal
Ellen Bass and Laura Davis

The Dark Side of the Light
Chasers: Reclaiming Your Power, Creativity, Brilliance, and Dreams

Debbie Ford et al

The Impact of Incest
Beverly Caruso

The Obsidian Mirror: An Adult
Healing From Incest
Louise Wisechild

The Obsidian Mirror: Healing
From Childhood Sexual Abuse
Laura Davis & Louise Wisechild

The Right to Innocence:
Healing the Trauma of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Beverly Engel

The Sexual Healing Journey: A
Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Wendy Maltz

The Singing Bird Will Come:
Living With Love, Strength, and Joy
Dionne Blaha

The Survivor’s Guide to
Sex
Staci Haines

The Wounded Heart: Hope for
Adult Victims of Childhood Sexual Abuse
Dan Allender

To Kill A Mockingbird
Harper Lee

Too Scared To Cry: Psychic
Trauma in Childhood
Lenore Terr

Trauma & Recovery
Judith Herman, MD

United We Stand: A Book for
People With Multiple Personalities
Eliana Gil & Margery

Casebeer

Victims No Longer: Men
Recovering from Incest and Other Sexual Child Abuse
Mike Lew

When Rabbit Howls Truddi Chase

When You Are the Partner of a
Rape or Incest Survivor
Robert Berry Levine

When You’re Ready: A woman’s
Healing From Childhood Physical and Sexual Abuse by Her Mother
Kathy

Evert & Inie Bijkerk

Why Me? Help for Victims of
Child Sexual Abuse (Even if They Are Adults Now)
Lynn Daugherty, Ph.D.

Women, Sex, and Addiction: A
Search for Love & Power
Charlotte Kasl

 

 

Does INCEST strip the INNOCENCE from a CHILD?

That is the Question ….

Comments

  1. Preying on children, or coercion of any kind, is unacceptable. Rapists and child molesters need to be locked up for a very long time, and I do not support statutory rape. That is all true regardless of the relation of the perpetrator and the victim. CONSENSUAL incest between adults, though still taboo in many places, is not illegal everywhere and should not be illegal anywhere. If a woman’s body is her own, she should be free to share with any other consenting adults, even if they are closely related. Indeed, there are women in happy lifelong relationships with a close relative; we all know some, whether we are aware of it or not.

    • Team Celebration says:

      Absolutely, and our world needs more of those that care to Take Action!!!

      This activity can be happening in your own family, hometown, etc.; wake up and smell the coffee , world.

  2. “My name is Elise McGhee and I would like to extend my heartfelt thanks to all of you for the very valuable and important work that you do.

    In 1999, I escaped my abuser of thirty years. In my tormented, hopeless, and very fragile state of mind, I was fortunate to have found Interact; a local resource center in Raleigh, North Carolina.

    My mission is to now share my story and to be a voice for these precious victims and courageous survivors of incest. I am on Speakers Bureau for the national network, RAINN; my facebook site is listed as: Incest-Thirty Years of Silence; and, http://www.thirtyyearsofsilence.com in addition to my memoir, now available in ebook format on Amazon Kindle and Barnes & Noble Nook…”

    My sincerest regards,
    Elise

    • karen haines says:

      Hi Elise, I have just read your book, OMG I don’t know what to say, you are a true courageous woman. My father sexually abused me, it took me till I was 45 to tell, I lost it one day I could take no more, the abuse that I still received from my so called father. So I told my Mother, they are not together any more, he left the country, however my Mother is still in contact with him, ]that part I don’t understand], after she knows what he did.

      My memories effect me every day of my life, not just the sexual abuse, the verbal bullying and nasty person he was.

      He has prostrate cancer, fantastic a cancer well deserved and I told him that too, I told him I hope you die a terrible death…

      I dream about him, I go through stages where it eats me up, then I get a bit better and then it eats me up again.

      I am glad I read your book, you have done well, good for you.

      xxxx

Speak Your Mind

*

Copyright 2014 @ A Celebration of Women™ The World Hub for Women Leaders That Care