What a Grown-Ass Woman Can Do for Herself to Have Fun

As the famous song goes, ‘girls just wanna have fun,’ a statement true to this day. All a lady ever wants to do is kick her heels and get pampered, but the way we were raised forced us to believe that only Prince Charming would be able to pamper us. On the contrary, a true lady will know how to entertain herself and find fun activities to do without waiting for someone to do it for her. Take charge ladies of your own life and find inspiration in these following ideas for a fun, exciting, and adventurous ‘me time.’

Indulge in a Spa Day

Pampering yourself is never complete without a day at the spa. Spend the whole day at a spa where you can splurge on super relaxing massages, revitalizing facials or body scrubs, or even just unwinding in a Jacuzzi or sauna. Not only will your body and skin thank you for this rejuvenating trip, but you will also leave as a brand new woman!

Travel Solo

Take a page from the book Eat, Pray, Love and go on an enthralling solo vacation. Whether you are backpacking through Europe or you go on a luxury trip, wherever you want to go, make sure you have fun. Hit the shopping streets, indulge in a culinary food tour, and take Instagram-worthy pictures of famous tourist spots. Traveling solo is ideal for discovering who you really are, only you will know how to entertain yourself.

Get Physical

It’s known that exercising releases endorphins that last for days. Make it a fun activity by signing up for a new dance or aerobics class that you never thought of doing before. Go for a jog or walk in a nearby outdoor park, the fresh air will do you good, or even go for a refreshing swim!

Spice up Your Sex Life

If you’re in a committed relationship, then spice up your sex life with a fun night out of dancing, dinner, and a tantalizing bedroom session. You can give your date night an interesting twist by bringing in sex toys for a fun night of playtime and intimacy. Try new things in the bedroom, make your night all about you, and enjoy the rush of satisfaction.

Splurge on Gifts

One thing that is common among women, is that they feel they don’t deserve to treat or reward themselves with gifts. Ladies, you’re working your ass off, it’s time to reap the benefits! Fancy that expensive make-up kit? Buy it! Always wanted designer bags or shoes? Go ahead! You’ve been meaning to get yourself a new smartphone that will help with your daily tasks? Do it! You always wanted to eat at that new fancy restaurant? Make a reservation for one! You’re afraid to indulge in dessert? One piece of your favorite yummy treat won’t hurt. Whatever it is you’ve been meaning to get yourself, but felt you shouldn’t be in the past; reward yourself, you deserve it!

Unplug with a Staycation

Unwinding at home is the ultimate fun experience for a lot of people. Unplug from social media and enjoy a relaxing staycation. Draw yourself a bubble bath with music and a glass of wine, curl up with a book and a good cup of coffee, order junk food and binge-watch movies or TV shows on your comfy couch, or even sleep in.

Have a Girls’ Night

Call up your girlfriends for a night on the town. Have a delicious lunch or dinner with some chit-chat and great food, or even decide to go dancing and release all your troubles away. You can also have a night-in with at-home spa treatments, a chick flick, snacks, or even game-night. Nothing is more fun than time with friends.

Pick up a Hobby

Who said learning something new can’t be fun? Pick up a new hobby by either enrolling in a class or learn online. It can be learning to play an instrument, experimenting with arts and crafts, or any relaxing DIY project. These hobbies will get your mind off your troubles and you will enjoy your time.

Take Charge of Your ‘Me Time’

Only you will know how to truly create a fun experience for yourself; whether you take time off work for a solo vacation, unwind at home, or even pamper yourself with an array of treats. Don’t be afraid to indulge, you know you deserve it.

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