“Personal Current Reality”, Lilliam Delmonte

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everyone for self


Most people are out for their own benefit. If they don’t haven’t voluntarily stayed in touch as a (trusted) true friend apart from the sudden current situation, you need to realize they have no “REAL” personal vested interest and concern in “YOUR” life even if they “SAY” they do. People do what they have and need to do in order to get by in “THEIR” own lives. Even good-minded and positive moral people have their own best interest at heart everyday. It is normal, situational, and circumstantial.

Don’t take it personally.

It’s based on their “Personal Current Reality” and own issues, at the moment.

Ask yourself: Is he or she truly “GENUINE” in words and action? What possibly motivates them to say and do things. In regards to you? Is it in your best interest or theirs? Have they done anything to show extra concern and respect towards you before this? And now? Have they offered to give of themselves or help in past? Encouraging? How so? Why would they? These questions give you reality insight into true motives.

Remember: those who really care help, ” SACRIFICE AND OFFER”, and give without expecting much back when you are in need or struggling. Reality check it. Don’t be taken advantage of. It’s easy to trust and get talked into an action without realizing consequence till after. Yes. It IS tough to be assertive, to stand up, and speak up with conviction. But, you need to be assertive to survive or get ahead at times. It is necessary and OK !!

Don’t trust, or give in SO quickly without careful consideration first, of motive and consequences. If it seems,sounds,feels wrong, don’t do it because “THEY” tell you that you should. And vice versa. If it seems right and makes “LOGICAL SENSE” go for it. Regardless, of their imposed opinion. Deep down YOU know what you are capable of !! And, WHAT is right and wrong. Listen to your gut. BE STRONG !! You are in charge, and YOU are responsible for taking care of YOU. We will not judge but look up to it. You can do it..NO ONES JUST YOURSELF ~~ Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ * Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

REMEMBER MY FRIENDS ~~ “You were born an original. Don’t die a copy.” Only you can decide how far that you go in life, or how far that you don’t go in life. ~~ Be alive, and watch it spread !!! ~~The choice is always yours. Try it.

You’ll like it !!! Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ * Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ •٠·ღ*¸.•°*”˜˜ BE HAPPY, BE ALIVE AND KISS 💋💋💋
THE WORLD 🌺🌹🌺LilliamDelmonte

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