Take Action …not RE-Action!

 

• Are you still holding onto grudges or being haunted by negative past relationships?

• Is there an ‘ex’ who has wronged you in the past and whom you have not forgiven?

• Do your thoughts ever turn to past relationship hurt, betrayal and jealousy?

• Are you ever worried that the same patterns will repeat in your current or future relationships?

  
  

Walk Away … with Dignity and Self Respect

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.  Allow your intuition(or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man, before you find what truly makes you happy.

If the relationship ends because the man is not treating you right then heck no, you can’t be friends, a friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.Don’t settle …If you feel like he is stringing you along he probably is. Don’t stay because you think it will get better.

You will be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
 

Always …have your own friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

Never let a man define who you are.

You can not change a man’s behavior change comes  within. Don’t ever make him feel he is more important then you are..even if he  has more education or is in a better job. Don’t make him into a god, he is a man  nothing more nothing less.

Never borrow someone else’s man!!

If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you.

A man will treat you the way you allow him to. All men are not dogs. You should not be doing all the bending’ as compromise is a two-way street. You will need to heel between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship, you should never look for someone to complete you…a relationship consist of 2 whole individuals…look for someone complimentary not supplementary.

Dating is fun even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr.Right.  Make him miss you sometimes..when a man knows where you are,and your always readily available to him he takes it for granted. Don’t fully commit to who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies … you’ll make someone smile,another rethink her choices,and another women prepare. They say it takes a minute to find a special person,an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire life time to forget them.

Thanks to Crystal: http://www.datehookup.com/User-157830259.htm

 

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